The rope-makers of the ancient world discovered that a rope made of a single or a double strand of thread could be broken so easily; however, a rope made of three strands was not so easily broken. “Though one may be overpowered, two can defend themselves. A cord of three strands is not quickly broken.” (Ecclesiastes 4:12). A person by him or herself, without fellowship, support, and love, is like a cord of one strand – they are not very strong. Each strand alone is no good without being woven around each other, when the 3 strands bind together they are unbreakable! Two people who support and love each other, like a rope of two strands, is stronger. A three-stranded cord, however, is even stronger, this sort of fellowship can endure the trials of life’s journey. In ancient times, rabbis said, “When two sit together and exchange words of torah, then the divine presence is among them.” Hear it from Jesus’ perspective: “For where two or three are gathered in my name, there am I among them” (Matthew 18:20).
One of the purest forms of worship is study. When we sing or pray, we give God our words. When we study, we receive God’s words. What a great privilege it is to hear, understand, and do the words of God! It is important to have friends to encourage us along the way. We understand the value of relationships between friends. The wise man said, “A friend loves at all times” (Proverbs 17:17a). But we also have the need to be to become more like Jesus. Again, the writer of Proverbs declares, “Iron sharpens iron, and one man sharpens another” (Proverbs 27:17).
We all need people who will challenge, encourage, and hold us accountable to be better people tomorrow than we are today. We know we need to be godly people. We know we need to be like Jesus and “go about doing good.” Yet how often do good intentions come and go with no results?
I want to encourage you to find friends who will be supportive and challenging to your spiritual life. The disciples did that for each other. We need it, too. Never yield to the temptation of listening to the enemy tell you that it is no use. But seek HIM with all your heart, lay down your sin and pride and know that it isn’t about you. It’s about your devotion to God and one another, and about what God is doing, and able to achieve among you.
As you are woven in an unbreakable cord of three strands, nothing in all the world an beyond will be able to separate you and each other from the love of God.